Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation Common Terminology
These definitions are widely but not universally accepted. An individual’s self-definition always takes precedence over any dictionary definition, and it is important to understand the terminology preferences and meanings for each individual. Honoring and respecting the expression of people’s deeply held identity(-ies) is the first and most important step to creating an atmosphere of emotional safety that allows them to be authentically seen and heard.
PerformCare and the NJ Children’s System of Care recognize that language is fluid and constantly evolving. Therefore, updates will be made to this listing of common terminology from time to time to advance our collective learning and be respectful allies to individuals who identify as LGBTQIA+.
LGBTQIA+ Acronym
The LGBTQIA+ acronym is not complete (that’s what the “+” indicates), and it is not perfect. Deciding which identity gets representation in the acronym is always challenging, and there are many identities that are not explicitly included but are still entirely valid. This is particularly true of many culturally specific identities that exist outside Western understandings of gender and sexuality.
For the purposes of this guide, the LGBTQIA+ acronym will be utilized with an understanding that the acronym provides shorthand for a broad continuum of identities, expressions, and orientations that could never be completely captured through abbreviation. Below are some working definitions of frequently used terms as a starting point for dialogue and understanding.
Gender Identity
Sexual Orientation
Other Common Terminology
Disclaimer: PerformCare and the New Jersey Children’s System of Care encourage youth and families to visit additional resources and observe how different organizations define and interpret these terms. Acknowledging varying perspectives from multiple sources is an important step to gain a broader understanding of LGBTQIA+ terminology:
- The Trans Language Primer (TLP) is an educational resource that is regularly updated to acknowledge the complexity of gender and expression. It is available at https://translanguageprimer.com/full-index/.
- Human Rights Campaign (HRC) envisions a world where every member of the LGBTQIA+ family has the freedom to live their truth without fear and with equality under the law. They empower their three million members and supporters to mobilize against attacks on marginalized people in the community. You can access their Glossary of Terms at https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms.
- PFLAG Jersey Shore is a nonprofit organization that advocates for the LGBTQIA+ community in Monmouth and Ocean counties. PFLAG Jersey Shore recognizes that LGBTQIA+ language and vocabulary continue to evolve, but provides their working definitions of frequently used terms at http://pflagjerseyshore.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Transgender-Terminology-list-UPDATED-11-10-19.pdf.
- The National LGBTQIA+ Health Education Center provides a glossary of LGBTQIA+ terms that are relevant to health care and the identities of LGBTQIA+ people because understanding and becoming familiar with these terms can help health centers provide patients with the best quality care. The glossary can be found here: https://www.lgbtqiahealtheducation.org/publication/lgbtqia-glossary-of-terms-for-health-care-teams/
- University of Southern California (USC) Rossier School of Education is one of the world’s premier centers for graduate study in education. For more than 100 years, they have been preparing educational leaders to be change agents, providing them with the skills, knowledge, and determination to create environments in which all students can learn. You can access the Gender Identity Glossary for Schools at https://rossieronline.usc.edu/blog/gender-identity-glossary/.
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